Ku tilulamisela lembe ximali ra 2019

Swa fanela leswaku vanhu va tlangela ku humelela loku vavaku nakona a lembeni. Ku humelela (achievements) swi ta hi tindlela to hambana kuya hi vanhu na swiyimo swa vona evutonwini. Xikombiso: Vana va Xikolo ku nga va ku pasa a xikolweni, vanwana vana ku nga va ku pasela ehenhla ,ku pasa hi eyelet (distinction) , lava va ntangha khume kuhumelela ka vona iku amukeriwa eka swikolo swa tidyondzo tale henhla (university), ivi vanwana kuva kuva ku kuma ntirho endzhaku kaku pasa ntangha khume. Vanwana iku kuma ti khaphani leti nga tava dyondzisa ntirho (learnership programme). Vanwana vana vaya ka ti Technical college kuya dyondza mintirho ya mavoko.

Hi ku hambana hambana ka mingingiriko leyi vanhu vayi fikelelaka e lembeni, ku humelela koloko swilava munhu a tlangela. A swize swi lava munhu a kume kuhumelela lokuya ko tima na dyambu, sweswi ntsongo swa tlangeriwa. Hambi kuri kuxava namuneti na kokisi munhu a tlangela na muti wakwe swiva swienerile, kwalaho munhu u kota ku hlengeleta ntamu wo endle hiku tlurisa eka nkarhi lowu landzelaka. Eku fikeni ka lembe makumu, kuna vanhu lava mintolovelo ya vona kunga ku tshama hansi vati kambisisa leswaku va nga lulamisa kwihi ku kota leswaku ka lembe ximali leri landzelaka va kota kutirha kahle.

Kambe vanhu hi xitalo valulamisela lembe emasunguleni ka rona, ka nkarhi wunwana vanwana vafikeliwa nahi ku garingeta garigeta (procrastination) , leswi endlaka ka nkarhi wunwana vanwana lembe rize rifika xikarhi ku nga seva na nhlanga yo baleka ngati. Kambe lava sungulaka himahika swa vona swiva vangamela kahle kufambeni ka lembe hinkwaro. Tipulani ta lembe leti tsariwaka hansi swa olova leswaku munhu afikelela tani hi loko hi masiku na masiku manhu a tshamela ro vhakela tipulani ta kwe.

Kuveka tipulani na makungu miehleketweni (meditation) swi endla leswaku munhu a hanya xikongomelo xa vutomi bya yena na ku fikelela kuhumelela. Ku rhangisa Xikwembu ka makungu yawena swina mbuyelo lowunene.

Wa Nwina Thomas Baloyi (life Coach) 0786239180